Living in Denmark

Is being genuine and real…

How many of us truely embrace this?
Everyone has their own vested interest in every relationship that one has. Most of the time, yes we are selfish. Who can touch your heart and admit that what you have done is really selfless? I dont think i could be that selfless to anyone. Yes probably our parents, the only love that i believe is selfless.

How do you know if that person is truely genuine and real?

Sometimes what you hear and see is not necessarily the truth as we are all at times blinded by what we see or hear cause we choose to listen and only see what we would like to. Denying what sometimes is right in our face but we refuse to admit, cause at the very least, if its not said outright, we believe there is still a tweeny weeny bit of hope that we are able to hold on to.

But ultimately, we know its just us thinking too muchh. Indeed it has really been hard to tell a person’s sincerity anymore in the society that i am in now. But does it mean that i should treat people like others too and do away with all the being real and genuine?

Sometimes we need to feel it too, rather then just seeing or hearing things from the superficial level. Times when you know you are finding excuses for that someone, you know you are just denying it yourself.